I always dreamed of having the perfect family, being the perfect wife, and having the perfect life. Well……life has it’s way of surprising us all.? Read here on how my life shifted from this perfect dream.
It’s your TRAINING GROUND, so you choose whether you win or lose. – Brandy Yates
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There are so many people that can benefit from this. Your perspective on divorce and how it has changed you is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing!
Thank you for reading!!!
Sometimes the hardest things in life makes us a better and stronger person. You are a strong woman. Sometimes life lessons comes with a little bit of pain.
I definitely agree with that. Many life lessons only come through pain. And it is up to us if we will grow better or grow bitter from it. Thanks for reading!
I think this is very relatable and you could say that everything happens for a reason. You are very strong and I hope that everything works out for you.
Thank you for reading it. I do believe that there is a reason for the good as well as the bad things that happen. We just have to open our hearts and eyes to see what the reason was, and not grow bitter from it.
I got divorced and it was seriously the best thing that I have ever done. I am so much happier in my life at this time.
Divorce is an ugly thing according to society, but most of our testimonies in the real world is that divorce is one of the best things that has happened to us. While I am not an advocate for divorce, I am certainly not an advocate for people living miserable lies, just to count the years. Thank you for reading my story.
To have a family is not only a dream for me it is my life. I cant still accept the fact that my life is totally ruined especially my daughter’s future…. it is so depressive… God sees all i will be healed. We will be healed. Hope you find your peace of mind too.
Your life is only ruined if you allow it to be. I had to take the necessary steps needed so that I can move forward and heal. I had to work on getting myself together, learning me all over again, and learning the things I am weak in so that I can work on them. I don’t want my pain or failures of past relationships to be the reason why any future relationship/marriage don’t work. My son is good through this all because I chose to do my best and co-parent. That took me forgiving his dad and doing what’s needed so I can heal and not want that marriage anymore.
I know how hard for a woman to face this kind of hardships and I am glad that you choose to be okay and be better day after days after days.
Thank you for reading it. It is hard on women because we don’t always wanna let go of the idea of marriage. If you notice, men move on faster. I chose to not slumber in pity over it and grow from it. There is always someone out there willing to go through life and marriage with you exactly how it’s meant to be. Can’t find that if we don’t allow ourselves to heal and move forward.
I can say that you are strong person and I am glad that you were able to find your happiness after your divorce. Hope you have a wonderful journey in life.
Thank you for reading and thank you for your blessings. Hope you have wonderful things happen to you on your journey of life as well.
I am happy that you can find your happiness after a divorce. Best wishes on your journey forward!
Thank you!
Having expectations and then having them not met can be so difficult. Sometimes it takes a difficult situation to realize that what we thought we wanted was not what was truly best.
You are absolutely correct. My ex is a wonderful dad and we co-parent very well, but that marriage was not what I needed even though I thought that was what was best for me at that moment.
I think a lot of people can relate to this. Some for good, some for bad and I feel that if you can see the good, sometimes divorces can teach a lot about yourself. Great post!
Despite the bad stigma divorce gets in society, some people’s testimony is that their divorce was a good thing. I am unfortunately one of those people to testify that. Fresh start at learning me all over again.