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Your Blessings ALWAYS Include Other People

written by Brandy Yates

Click here to hear my thoughts on how we should allow new connections into our lives because truthfully, most of the current and past connections are not as supportive as we would like them.

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I also speak on the competition amongst entrepreneurs that creates unnecessary beef and drama in your business and well as being the type of person who realize that you are not ALWAYS right, nor is your THINKING always right. We have to learn to be teach-able.

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August 3, 2019 0 comment
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How I Overcame An Abusive Household (Guest Post)
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How I Overcame An Abusive Household (Guest Post)

written by Brandy Yates

WHERE IT ALL STARTED:?

For 17 years I was abused at home by my father. ?As the years went on I became more sad, angry, hurt and closed off. ?I was so alone. ?My family weren?t there for me as I would have liked to. ?My life was hell, but now I love my life and I?m glad I have been through what I have been through.

 

OVERCOMING MY TROUBLED CHILDHOOD:

I found many ways to escape the hell of a life I was living. ?From reading, writing, listening to music, watching movies and going online. ?I found comfort in meeting people online. ?Being honest about my life to those people was a great comfort and a great weight off my shoulders.

 

No one understood why I spoke to strangers online, but it was a huge comfort for me. ?I even met my boyfriend online and we are now in a long distance relationship. ?I really couldn?t be happier.

 

For a long time I didn?t talk to anyone about how I felt. ?I talked about what I had been through to strangers, but never spoke to people close to me about how I felt. ?Being vulnerable was a big no-no for me. ?I hate showing off my feelings and looking weak.

 

MY LIFE CHANGING MOMENT:

Last year I began learning that I needed to talk. ?I needed to stop hurting the people I cared about. ?When I didn?t talk about how I felt, I would explode over the smallest things and lash out by saying or doing things that would upset the people I cared for.

 

THEN REALITY HIT ME:

**** I KNEW I NEEDED HELP ****

  • I begun counseling and started to open up.? This helped a lot with the way that I am now.? The?only person I truly talk to is my boyfriend Ryan and he helps me get through my hardest, down?days.? No matter how I?m feeling he always gets me to laugh and smile.
  • To get over childhood trauma it takes a lot of time and patience.
  • I don?t believe I will ever be 100% recovered from everything that I have been through, but I?know that I can work through it with Ryan and work on making my life better and not let my past?affect my future.

 

Hi everyone! I?m Anne Carty.

  • I am a nicheless blogger at:? ?www.foreverthewanderer.ie/wp?
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November 12, 2018 2 comments
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